So I actually removed someone from facebook for the first
time because they offended me, I actually don’t really need them on my facebook
they are my sisters longest friend’s brother who I use to hang around with when
I was ickle. I don’t tend to talk about my religion because I don’t feel the
need to push it on people and I am not the perfect Christian at all. It was
something small which most people would not find offensive but if I don’t force
my view I don’t expect people to force theirs on me (Although a lot do). He was
annoyed because of all the religious posts people put on their facebook, but
there is this great thing about facebook where you can hide people’s annoying
statuses or even better a remove button. No instead he has a rant on his saying
how he doesn’t want to see their religious posts (still not offended at the
moment), how he will remove anyone who keeps posting them (yeah not offended
because I don’t) but then he goes on to say how Jesus is imaginary. That is his
view yes, but not mine and it pissed me off. I asked a girl at work if I should
be offended or not because I wouldn’t want to overreact and she is not religious
but said if she was me she would be offended. So instead of moaning about it on
my facebook and pushing my beliefs on everyone – I removed him. Honestly, I don’t
actually think it’s that offensive (I have heard worse) but I don’t really want
people telling me what is or isn’t imaginary. Don’t get me wrong, if you don’t believe
that is your choice and I won’t really go into a conversation with people about
it. I have my reasons just as everyone has theirs not to believe, or have a
different culture (although I find it interesting to learn about them), or even
if you are not sure.
That is just one thing, at the moment a lot of things are
getting irritating and I wonder how long it will be before I snap. People keep
talking down to me, like I am a child or don’t know because for whatever reason
(maybe they think I am stupid). I wouldn’t say I am stupid or a child, I have
my moments when I come out with ditzy things or I say something that is stupid
(this does not make me stupid/thick). I can’t say I am intelligent but I am
always willing to learn, if I don’t understand something I ask, I don’t tend to
get jokes but I think that is just me. I don’t mind people telling me something
I already know but the way people say it you would honestly think I was a child
or stupid. I wonder why people do this, does it make them feel superior or do
they honestly not see that I am 25 years old with a kid of my own (who I will
say is well behaved most of the time) he is still alive and well looked after
so surely they should see that. My sister does this a fair bit but that is the
way she is, she thinks I am incapable of driving because of the one time I
drove to bingo but my problem is if I don’t know where I am going I do talk
nervously (this is my nature). But I am fully capable of getting to my home
town which is over a 100 miles away with my son in the car, I have not had a
crash (touch wood I don’t) but my confidence drops when she is in the car
judging me.
I am going to stop, I am getting irritable about the
irritating things…
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